December 9, 2008

Things I want to do before I Die..

I was watching Dusvidaniya on the other day. It was a different movie someway, it touched for its simplicity and the most interesting thing i saw was that the guy died peacefully without making much fuss and he died a happy man, doing what ever things he wanted to do in life. So when i was talking to my friend M about this movie, she throw me the question "what are those 10 things you want to do before you die?". Being a person, taking my life the way it comes, i was quite unplanned to answer it, and my goody goody friends were ready with their 10s.
So i had to think and think again, wt are the 10 most important things i want to do. Till now i hadnt thought abt anything other than my job, so again thinking abt other things made me quite mad untill i finally noted down, those 10 things.
Here it goes :
  1. Take my parents to a foreign trip to Netherlands (it happens to be my favourite place)
  2. To write a book. (Infact i am on process for the last some time, god knws when it will finish, the pace its going now, i think it will take another 15-20yrs)
  3. To gift my brother a BMW. (I dont know WHYYYY, this car, bt he simply loves it SO!)
  4. To perform dance in Khajuraho ( I stopped dancing 5yrs back, bt still cherishes to start it again some day, i know its a long way to go, bt then its MY small wish)
  5. To visit an old friend of mine who happen to be my close friend (once). (I should forgive ppl for their mistakes, coz even i do mistakes......... i really doubt whether i will do this thing, currently i am not planning actually, bt then someday i hav to)
  6. Build my dream riverside house, specifically in habitat model (I knw, this is bit far too beyond my current capacity, bt i hav started saving a bit for that)
  7. Stay at my home atleast one month. (Well its been a long time since i have gone home, moreover i never got a chance to stay in my house for more than a week for the last 3-4 yrs, pretty attached)
  8. Talk openly about me. (This never happened before, for i keep my small things to myself, well some day i would like to share it, now my otherside is totally unknown to the world,may b if i get a good listner)
  9. Tell someone that i really like you or more than that. (This needs bit guts,and ofcourse i hasnt found 'the one' yet and the way things are going now, i think i will die mostly without telling those words)
  10. Finally to die seeing the people i love who are close to my heart, without hurting them and without hurting me.

Whooooooooooop.....!!!!!! finally i did it. I know those 10 things are not so great, bt then its close to my heart, coz i took hell lot of time to decide those.
C'mon i am not going to die now, so whn that time comes, i thought i will decide. Well now as i hav decided things already, i guess i can start figuring out how to do it. So wt u wanna do???? :)


Praveen said...

hehhee nice list:D
writing a book is ofcourse on my list too..started the work 8 months back..still stuck at 2 pages..and may take anothr 20 years as u said:D

btw, dasvidaniya..gotta watch it..
hav u seen 'bucket list', a recent movie with a similar theme?

Tara said...

Hmm...interesting list there! Writing an autobiography is on my list...have written just 2 chapters till now.. ;) Will have to think about the others...I am as unplanned as you were! :)

Srishti Menin said...

Very nice list.. i can see that u r very choosy in this also as usual. Hey by the way its good to know the things which was pretty unknown for the last some time, u knw :)

All Talk and No Action said...

Dasvidaniya...I haven't watched it yet !
Seeing your post makes me wana watch it NOW !

I too havn't thght of any list as such...
But yes, if ever I were to write down one...then a foreign trip for parents, a book and lottsss of time at home with family would definitely be on it.

All Talk and No Action said...

Oh and 1 more thing....maybe u should tell that "someone" who you like :)

Though it takes guts... and the outcome could be for/against you...yet its better than not saying it at all !

Indian Home Maker said...

Blog Rolled you :)

Anonymous said...

yeh its similiar to bucket list, i liked it coz, hw that person is facing death is quite diferent from wt we c usualy..touching one.

@ tara
dnt worry dear, u got lot of time to do... (once ur exam finishes :)

thx dear, u knw me na..

@ all talk
u can watch dasvidaniya for its a movie with a diference that will REALLY touch ur heart.
i wil take ur words once i get the rite guy :)
@ home maker
thnk u :)