I was watching Dusvidaniya on the other day. It was a different movie someway, it touched for its simplicity and the most interesting thing i saw was that the guy died peacefully without making much fuss and he died a happy man, doing what ever things he wanted to do in life. So when i was talking to my friend M about this movie, she throw me the question "what are those 10 things you want to do before you die?". Being a person, taking my life the way it comes, i was quite unplanned to answer it, and my goody goody friends were ready with their 10s.
So i had to think and think again, wt are the 10 most important things i want to do. Till now i hadnt thought abt anything other than my job, so again thinking abt other things made me quite mad untill i finally noted down, those 10 things.
Here it goes :
- Take my parents to a foreign trip to Netherlands (it happens to be my favourite place)
- To write a book. (Infact i am on process for the last some time, god knws when it will finish, the pace its going now, i think it will take another 15-20yrs)
- To gift my brother a BMW. (I dont know WHYYYY, this car, bt he simply loves it SO!)
- To perform dance in Khajuraho ( I stopped dancing 5yrs back, bt still cherishes to start it again some day, i know its a long way to go, bt then its MY small wish)
- To visit an old friend of mine who happen to be my close friend (once). (I should forgive ppl for their mistakes, coz even i do mistakes......... i really doubt whether i will do this thing, currently i am not planning actually, bt then someday i hav to)
- Build my dream riverside house, specifically in habitat model (I knw, this is bit far too beyond my current capacity, bt i hav started saving a bit for that)
- Stay at my home atleast one month. (Well its been a long time since i have gone home, moreover i never got a chance to stay in my house for more than a week for the last 3-4 yrs, pretty attached)
- Talk openly about me. (This never happened before, for i keep my small things to myself, well some day i would like to share it, now my otherside is totally unknown to the world,may b if i get a good listner)
- Tell someone that i really like you or more than that. (This needs bit guts,and ofcourse i hasnt found 'the one' yet and the way things are going now, i think i will die mostly without telling those words)
- Finally to die seeing the people i love who are close to my heart, without hurting them and without hurting me.
Whooooooooooop.....!!!!!! finally i did it. I know those 10 things are not so great, bt then its close to my heart, coz i took hell lot of time to decide those.
C'mon i am not going to die now, so whn that time comes, i thought i will decide. Well now as i hav decided things already, i guess i can start figuring out how to do it. So wt u wanna do???? :)
7 comments:
hehhee nice list:D
writing a book is ofcourse on my list too..started the work 8 months back..still stuck at 2 pages..and may take anothr 20 years as u said:D
btw, dasvidaniya..gotta watch it..
hav u seen 'bucket list', a recent movie with a similar theme?
Hmm...interesting list there! Writing an autobiography is on my list...have written just 2 chapters till now.. ;) Will have to think about the others...I am as unplanned as you were! :)
Very nice list.. i can see that u r very choosy in this also as usual. Hey by the way its good to know the things which was pretty unknown for the last some time, u knw :)
Dasvidaniya...I haven't watched it yet !
Seeing your post makes me wana watch it NOW !
I too havn't thght of any list as such...
But yes, if ever I were to write down one...then a foreign trip for parents, a book and lottsss of time at home with family would definitely be on it.
Oh and 1 more thing....maybe u should tell that "someone" who you like :)
Though it takes guts... and the outcome could be for/against you...yet its better than not saying it at all !
Blog Rolled you :)
@praveen
yeh its similiar to bucket list, i liked it coz, hw that person is facing death is quite diferent from wt we c usualy..touching one.
@ tara
dnt worry dear, u got lot of time to do... (once ur exam finishes :)
@srishti
thx dear, u knw me na..
@ all talk
u can watch dasvidaniya for its a movie with a diference that will REALLY touch ur heart.
i wil take ur words once i get the rite guy :)
@ home maker
thnk u :)
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